Like so many others, I used to create detailed plans that spanned years. None of the panned out. Software development changed how I think about…
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Kindness requires sincerity. It comes from the heart. Politeness can be compelled by forcing you to follow agreed-upon rules. Knowing the distinction…
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Social media influencers with thousands of followers are revered in modern society. Often they and their fans assume the influencers are experts in…
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There's no joy without pain. It's counterintuitive, but validated by philosophers, religious scholars, and even scientists. So trying to banish pain and…
Writing for audiences means thinking through ideas and empathizing with others. These are strengths that also make us human. So, using AI tools, like…
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Mentors have all kinds of personalities. Some are always in a hurry, some are perfectionists, some love to ask questions, and some are like walking…
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Ever since I was child, I was called, "quiet," "shy," and "introverted." Many years later, I found out I am what psychology calls, a "Highly Sensitive…
One thing I noticed over the years is: ice hockey players are sometimes reluctant to shoot the puck at the goal (or the net). Why? Because they don’t…
Software is a lucrative business. All entrepreneurs want in. But what happens when the boss has no recent experience developing software? The needs of…
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Everything comes easily to those with talent. And being a top talent can lead to risk aversion. So much so, failure becomes a risk at every turn. Stars…
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Backseat drivers (observers who direct every small action of the driver) is a common occurrence while pair programming in software development, and in…
When learning something new, it's tempting to stay in one's comfort zone. When learning to skate or swim, it feels safer to cling to the wall. When…
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